~/Library/Application Support/minecraft/In the command sequence below you can see the space " " in Application Support is actually present but represented by the forward slash escape sequence to force the space to be read in at the command line).
An easy way to get there is, from the Finder > Go > Go to folder; and enter "/Users/myname/Library/Application Support/minecraft/bin".
Another way is to use the Finder shortcut "cmd+shift+G", and enter "/Users/myname/Library/Application Support/minecraft/bin".
Anyway, the above gets you to the installation folder.
To install the minecraftforge mod pack access the latest .jar and launch it. The new installer finds your Minecraft files and unpacks/downloads the files to the right location.
The following notes applied to pre-1.5.2 Minecraft...
cd ~/Desktop
mkdir ADD_MOD_FILES_HERE
cd ADD_MOD_FILES_HERE
jar xf ~/Library/Application\ Support/minecraft/bin/minecraft.jar
rm META-INF/MOJANG_C.*
ADD_MOD_FILES_HERE$
jar uf ~/Library/Application\ Support/minecraft/bin/minecraft.jar *
Pointers:
http://docs.oracle.com/javase/tutorial/deployment/jar/update.html
http://minecraftformac.tumblr.com/post/19686390830/unjarrejar